Dressed for attack?

Making a statement
For many people, the clothes we wear are a way of self-expression,
reflecting our interests, ideas about ourselves and sometimes even
desires about what we’d like to be.
Clothing can also make
serious statements whether it’s in the form of a slogan on
a T-shirt or a particular item of dress worn to reflect the wearer’s
religious beliefs such as a hijab worn by many Muslim women.
However,
for women there is often a further dimension attributed to their
choice of clothing – it can make a statement about their
sexuality, and also their morality. 
Negative attentions?
If a woman wears short, skimpy clothing, some people argue that it
means she’s ‘easy’ or ‘loose’, and
deserves any attention from men she may get.
This can be taken
further to argue that if a woman is attacked or raped when wearing
such ‘provocative’ clothing, she effectively ‘asked
for it’. Needless to say, such comments are not made about
men’s clothes.
It is also notable that when women are attacked
because of perceptions about their morality, they are never attacked
by other women. 
Negative attitudes!
Statistically, the reality in the West is that clothing seems to
play little part in whether a woman is attacked or not.
Instead
attacks reflect more the aggressor’s attitude to women, in
which they are seen to be little more than objects. The fact that
women around the world are the victims of male violence is an issue
which needs to be addressed, rather than looking for excuses and
justifications for men’s behaviour.
This is particularly
important in countries which do not give equal status to women
in terms of their social, political, and even legal standing. 
Respecting difference
Of course, perceptions and attitudes take a long time to change.
There is also the argument that some clothes are more appropriate
to certain places than others.
For example, no one would recommend
that you wear a bikini in the office! Similarly, when travelling
in different countries and cultures, women - and men - should respect
the dress conventions of those places.
Whilst it is not always
easy to reconcile different traditions with personal preferences,
many women are adept at subverting clothing - including make-up – for
their own enjoyment and self-expression.
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