Dressed for attack?
Making a statement
For many people, the clothes we wear are a way of self-expression, reflecting
our interests, ideas about ourselves and sometimes even desires about
what we’d like to be. Clothing can also make serious statements
whether it’s in the form of a slogan on a T-shirt or a particular
item of dress worn to reflect the wearer’s religious beliefs
such as a hijab worn by many Muslim women. However, for women there
is often a further dimension attributed to their choice of clothing – it
can make a statement about their sexuality, and also their morality.
Negative attentions?
If a woman wears short, skimpy clothing, some people argue that it means
she’s ‘easy’ or ‘loose’, and deserves
any attention from men she may get. This can be taken further to argue
that if a woman is attacked or raped when wearing such ‘provocative’ clothing,
she effectively ‘asked for it’. Needless to say, such comments
are not made about men’s clothes. It is also notable that when
women are attacked because of perceptions about their morality, they
are never attacked by other women.
Negative attitudes!
Statistically, the reality in the West is that clothing seems to play
little part in whether a woman is attacked or not. Instead attacks
reflect more the aggressor’s attitude to women, in which they
are seen to be little more than objects. The fact that women around
the world are the victims of male violence is an issue which needs
to be addressed, rather than looking for excuses and justifications
for men’s behaviour. This is particularly important in countries
which do not give equal status to women in terms of their social, political,
and even legal standing.
Respecting difference
Of course, perceptions and attitudes take a long time to change. There
is also the argument that some clothes are more appropriate to certain
places than others. For example, no one would recommend that you wear
a bikini in the office! Similarly, when travelling in different countries
and cultures, women - and men - should respect the dress conventions
of those places. Whilst it is not always easy to reconcile different
traditions with personal preferences, many women are adept at subverting
clothing - including make-up – for their own enjoyment and self-expression.
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